Monday, August 3, 2009

How can I get used to bras with much support and 4 hooks in the back?

I'm 13 and a C cup thoug I'm thin. Mom makes me wear bras like this at http://www.anita.com/de/en/0,1,104,1478,... for support. I dont like, but love her and obey. They make me sweat when it's hot and arent easy to put on, because of their 4 hooks. But my Dr told us those bras are very good for my health, so I'm really stuck.

How can I get used to bras with much support and 4 hooks in the back?
It'll take some time for you to get used to them (maybe several weeks to a few months) but they are very good for you. The support causes you to not hurt your lower back and seeing that you are thin you may have some lower back pain despite the fact that you have a supportive bra. Also you're probably still growing so you need as much support as possible at this time. Don't worry about it too much, soon you'll be very comfortable with your body and what you wear. :-)
Reply:I hear you honey! I was thin and a D within a year of starting to wear a bra. The support bra's are not pretty but you actually do get used to them. They not only save your back but also helps stop your boobs "bouncing" whenever you move. As you get older you will become more experienced with finding bra's that you like. BTW: If you are embarassed about wearing a "granny bra" when you change at school, I used to keep a more... atrractive...spare bra just for the changing times. I'd then change into the granny one in the toilet cubicle. It's a lot of work ( I kept the extra bra secret from my mother) but I understand if you might feel embarassed by your underwear
Reply:All I can suggest is to just wear the bra...alot, it feels weird at first but after you wear it for a while it won't.
Reply:I use to wear those bras when i was your age,but it was worse when i had to wear the flowery one, where everyone can see bumps on your breast. Your mom and your doctor knows best, at first they are uncomfortable, irritable really, but you get use to them over time, once you get older you can start look for bras that suit your style and can be comfortable and healthy. I can recommend the brand Lily of France they are comfortable bras and very "fashionable".....but stick to your bras for now, your back will thank you, as well as your breasts.
Reply:i think you take your mind off them when you wearin them and do somthing else,you will get use to them.
Reply:Why don't you talk to your mom if these bras are uncomfortable to you. I understand you want to obey her, but it's your body! See if there's a way you two could compromise. There are tons of options, I'm sure you could find one that you both agree on.
Reply:Those type of bras can help you so you wont have back pain in the future listen to mom she will not tell you anything wrong.



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